Sexy, Slimming, Flattering… too-small-for-me bathing suit for sale

*UPDATE: Happily, I sold this bathing suit and am awaiting the arrival of a size 14 in turquoise blue.   

I was so excited when I checked the mail this afternoon – the package with my new bathing suit had arrived!  I don’t normally get excited about bathing suits… er, I mean, I don’t ever get excited about bathing suits… but this one was actually flattering.


See all that wrapping and shirring and hiding of the hips?  It’s a Jantzen Vamp Maillot 1-Piece Swimsuit, size 12.  Unfortunately… I should have ordered a size larger. *sigh*  So, I have this beautiful new bathing suit that I can’t use and can’t return since I bought it off eBay. 

I do love this style and am hoping to get a larger size if and when this one sells.  If by chance you love this bathing suit I thought I’d let you know: it’s for sale!  I have an ebay listing now, in case you’re interested.

The Versatile Blogger Award

Thanks to Living Life Intentionally, I’ve had the honor of being given the Versatile Blogger Award!  I’ve been blogging for a number of years now but have only really dug my heels in recently as I’ve begun preschool this year with my now 4-year-old daughter.   

Now, this award does come with some homework – just what I need!  But it’s fun stuff, so let’s get on with it:

The Rules
1. Thank the person that nominated you with a link back to them.
2. Tell 7 things about yourself.
3. Pass this award on to 15 newly discovered blogs and let them know that they’ve received an award!

Seven Things
1. I have a twin brother. I’m a girl, he’s a boy, so we’re fraternal twins (though, oddly enough, I recently discovered there are rare cases in which identical twins can be different genders).  He likes to tell people he has an identical twin sister; it takes a minute for people to get it.  We did everything together growing up - rode bikes in our neighborhood, played house and other pretend games, played soccer on the same team, studied for research papers. 

2. I always said I would never get married. I liked guys, but I wasn’t the dating type.  In junior high/high school I dreamed of going to a career school and getting my own apartment – maybe with a few cats.  One of the youngest of five kids (along with my twin brother), I was the first to get married.  He, ironically, was the second.  

3. I can make a wedding cake.  It’s a lot of work!  I learned from my mom who made lots of wedding cakes in her day and even made her own wedding cake - can you believe it?  The last wedding cake I made was over four years ago, when I was pregnant with Gwen, but I’ve made plenty of smaller cakes since then. 

4. I have a confession: I love sweets!  No, I don’t like to suck on sugar cubes and despite the fact that I love chocolate (dark, please) I don’t like death-by-chocolate desserts.  But I’ve always preferred sweet over salty, cake over pies, that sort of thing – though I’ve tried to tame my tastebuds since healthifying our eating habits.  I’ve always associated special occasions with treats - think cake and ice cream for someone’s birthday, except apply it to every occasion.  Whenever I think of doing something for my kiddos, my mind immediately goes to getting them a special treat – it’s ingrained in me! 

5. It’s been a dream of mine to open a coffee shop.  I come from a family of multi-talented individuals – my mom could be a professional genealogist (among other things), my father works in computer programming, my sister has her own graphics design business, and my three brothers are also into computers - so I would definitely have an awesome pool of resources.  Nevermind my own husband who has his own construction business!  My love of food (especially treats!), coupled with an affinity for playing around with ingredients and tweaking recipes until they become my own - oh, and wanting to work for myself and make some money - has kept this idea alive in the back of my mind for a while now.  Maybe when the kids are older…

6.  I used to have an eating disorder.  I guess you could call it that.  Kind of ironic, coming on the heels of the subject of food.  In junior high I stopped eating; it was only four a couple months, but I lost a lot of weight and I’ve always had a love/relationship with food.  And myself.      

7.  I’ve had plastic surgery. Sort of.  And not the good kind. *grin*  I was… oh, maybe thirteen or fourteen?… when I fainted in the hallway.  Our home had stucco-type archways in the living room with cement ledges, and on the way down my face met these ledges (yowsers!).  Luckily, none of my teeth were knocked out but they cut through the skin and my parents had a plastic surgeon stitch me up.  There are a couple faint scars just below my lip.  Another scar near my cheek sometimes looks like a dimple when I smile.      

Well, that was fun.  Now to share some of my favorite blogs – in no particular order.

1. wordplayhouse – Her tagline, “inspirational play. creative day.” says it all.  All of her categories are an inspiration!  I particularly enjoy the love nature walk project, rock candy tree, campfire cupcakes and maple sugaring printables (I wish we had enough maple trees to collect our own sap).    

2. The Sleepytime Gal – I wish I could remember how I came upon some of these blogs; all I know is something draws me in and I’m hooked.  I think what first attracted me to The Sleepytime Gal was the post I discovered about her kids’ room, including her montessori-style baskets and library nook.  Seeing the beutiful Persimmon & Pink prints displayed in the room inspired me to purchase them for my own kiddos.  Each time she posts something speaks to me or inspires – like a homemade cleaning station (yup, pinned it) and homemade laundry detergent, which is similar to the recipe I use.  It’s also been fun watching joining her as she and daughters learn all about the Colonial days

3. A Beautiful Mess - I don’t normally frequent fashion blogs, but Elsie Larson’s delightful hodge-podge of vintage clothing (I love her daily outfits!) and the story of how she started her own boutique is inspiring.  Thrown in the mix are some scrumptious recipes (I’ve had a hankering for soft pretzels, and the salted caramel hot chocolate looks to-die-for.) and snazzy DIY tutorials (check out the Fall Leaves Garland – on my project list!).     

4. 1+1+1=1 - When I finally decided to embark upon preschooling Gwendolyn, it was Carisa’s website that gave me much of the inspiration – and free Preschool Pack printables! – that I needed.  The fact that she’s a Christian and wants to share with other Christian mothers – not only on 1+1+1=1 but her other website, Totally Tots – is something that really drew me in.  I fell in love with her idea for Tot Trays and started using them even before officially beginning preschool.  I now enter my preschool blog posts regularly on her Tot School posts and enjoy getting new ideas from the other mamas who share.

5.  Homeschool Creations – I discovered Jolanthe’s website through Carisa’s, since the two of them often collaborate on homeschool materials.  I enjoy reading how they go about their days and have her printable resources very useful.  I add my preschool posts regular to her Preschool Corner

6. Counting Coconuts – I was inspired by the montessori-style approach Mari-Ann uses to teach her son.  Her sensory tubs inspired me to create one for my kiddos and I’ve use some of her other ideas – like the felt counting fish and muffin tin meals.  One of these days we’ll be making Me on the Map to teach Gwen about her world.

7. design finch – “organize : create : inspire” – I totally relate!  Check out this post for getting DOORganized.  And I love how she rounds up lots of creative ideas that she comes across – like these Thanksgiving printables (I pinned the Thankful Paper Chains).  How about Organizing on a Budget?  Great ideas!
 
8. no big dill – This blog really makes me wish I could learn how to use my old sewing machine - she has lots of sewing tutorials.  Even if you don’t sew, the beautiful posts about her family and the photographs she shares are wonderful.  I love her series, Once Upon a Thread, projects inspired by children’s books.   

9. Little Birdie Secrets – I gravitate towards crafty blogs, and this one is no exception.  There are lots of cute tutorials; I remember bookmarking the heart strings project for Valentine’s Day.  Her chick tutu gave me some inspiration for Gwen’s mermaid tutu.

10. The Artful Parent – A treasure trove of kid-friendly arts and crafts.  The watercolor ideas are cool - especially the salty watercolors - as are the tissue paper stained glass.  Oh, and I really want to make the candy cane playdough with the kiddos and give some as gifts.

11. Mini eco – I love their simple, colorful, inventive tutorials and have pinned a few of them already.  I’ve made the playdough, which is awesome, and really want to make the twig boats with the kiddos.  

12. Clean. – I first found Rachel’s simple, peaceful spot on the internet when looking for homemade toothpaste recipes.  Then she blew me away with her downsizing challenge, inspiring me to get down to business and simplify our posessions; a number of people felt the same way and she hosted the Simplicity Parenting book club.  Our similarities made me feel connected – the fact that she unschools her children (an idea that greatly appeals to me), knits and crafts, and strives to live a more whole, simpler life.   

13. saltwater-kids – I happened upon this lovely little gem while looking for homeschool material.  I pinned her beautiful scavenger hunt cards for future reference and was totally psyched when I discovered her fort building kit tutorial (hello gift for my six nephews!).  A simple, clean blog with lots of great ideas; almost every post contains vivid pictures detailing the steps.

14. Lasso the Moon – I love the Albert Einstein quote they have on the main page, “It is a miracle that curiosity survives formal education.”  They’re dedicated to keeping that curiosity alive.  Check out their Box of Love projet; I’m thinking Christmas gift for the grandparents.  Their 100 Things Challenge is pretty inspiring, too.   

15. WhiMSy love – Just like its name suggests, this place is cute and colorful and… whimsical.  She has lots of funky tutorials, one of my favorites of which is the Bug Catcher Necklace.  I just found her snazzy idea for a hanging advent calendar using a shoe organizer!  Love it; wish I had thought of that this year, before December.

A Thing of Beauty

They’re here! They’re here!  The boots that Phil let me get for my birthday finally came today!

When I ordered them I hoped they might come in time for our camping trip at the end of October, but shortly after receiving my order confirmation I was told they were on backorder. *sigh* 

It was worth the wait.


The colors are gorgeous!  I feel like none of the clothes in my wardrobe do them justice; I’ll have to go shopping for some new duds!  In fact, I’ve been looking for outfit ensembles that go well with cowboy boots – tights or leggings, frilly dress, maybe a sweater dress.  Of course nothing I own.  Any ideas?  I’m thinking something red would look nice with the turquoise.  For now I’ll have to settle for jeans.


These are Lane boots – a company which has a gorgeous selection of what seems like excellent-quality boots – but they’re an exclusive design for Crow’s Nest Trading Co.  When I ordered these I lucked out and found a discount code for 10% off an order of $100 or more (S11901).   

Hm… for my next pair I’m drooling over the more basic, brown Dakota boots.  Or maye the Dawson.  Or maybe I should go for something red

 

 

Put Down That Chocolate Milk

A few weeks ago I read an article about the proposed ban of flavored milks in public school systems, opting instead for healthier white milk.  At the time I thought how ironic it was, considering that neither option is really “healthy.” 

Everyone has her own opinion on the matter, of course, and recently I came across an article entitled “Why Banning Foods in Schools Sends Kids the Wrong Message.” Aside from being a mom, the author is a registered dietitian, interesting to note while reading her remarks as well as her response to comments. 

Since reading more about food choices these days, becoming informed on the food products available in our grocery stores, I have been appalled at some of these so-called “foods” that are played off as having any semblance of nutritional value.  Just like any other Big Business, the USDA’s nutritional guidelines are skewed by those that give the most financial contributions to their cause.  I give them props for adding such a large portion of produce to the proverbial plate, and suggesting a reduction in sodium and “sugary drinks,” but they still recommend products that contain unhealthy ingredients. 

It scares me, seeing how much the government has injected itself into our every-day lives, trying to control how we raise our children, drive our cars, and even having a say in the food we eat.  While I’m against government control, don’t think they should have a say in what we choose to eat or drink, I find it interesting that they would suggest a ban on sugary drinks in schools or implementing a beverage tax, rather than informing people of the true nature of much of the packaged foods they throw at us in order to make a profit.

I actually haven’t followed up with the flavored milk proposal, although I believe the proposed beverage tax was defeated.  Do you think it’s a good idea for the government to make these decisions for us in the interest of public health?  Gets me thinking about my kiddos’ vaccination schedule (arrrgh)… but that’s for another time.