Eleven Years

When we planned our wedding for September 15, 2001 we had no idea we would share the week of our wedding with what would forever be known simply as “9/11.”  I felt guilty getting married; it seemed so trivial in comparison to what was happening in the nation at the time, but life goes on.

And life has flown by for eleven years!  Like so many things – school, children, etc. – the moments can at times crawl by and it seems like we’ll be stuck in a situation forever, but then we look back and wonder where all that time went.

Phil and I are always joking, “how did we end up together?”  When he says I’m a city girl and he’s most definitely a redneck; when I love mushrooms and olives and he can’t get them past his throat; when I’d rather read or craft and he’d rather tinker on rusty junk.  But the important things – our belief in God and family, our appreciation of nature, the blessing of our children and the desire to raise them as best we can, our love for each other - these are what we have in common. 

Oh, and we both love cheese.  And bacon.  And going to bed really early because we’re both old farts.  I ask him, ”what time will we go to bed when we really are old farts?”  It also helps that we make an effort to spend time together and we each think the other is HOTT (although I know he has poor eyesight).  

This week Phil took me by complete surprise and actually planned something for our anniversary!  He’s on shift today, but on Thursday while the kids were with their grandmother he and I took a day-trip to Nantucket Island, MA where we spent our honeymoon (and where I worked during high school, squirrelling away money that would eventually go for a down payment on our home).


We visited some of the same places as last time and had fun discovering new ones.  I got enough exercise to last for the rest of the year, wandering down cobblestone side streets and toting our lunch to a “just-around-the-next-corner” beach.  My poor back, hips and legs aren’t too happy with me right now but we had a great time.  I wish we could do things like that more often!

“Many waters cannot quench love; rivers cannot wash it away.”
Song of Solomon 8:7a

Feeling Sick…

You never want to hear from your doctor – “You’re feeling sick?  That’s great!”  But when it’s because you’ve got a little baby growing in your belly, it is a good thing. 

For Father’s Day, I had an extra present for Phil…


We had been praying and praying about whether or not to try for another baby.  Since I contracted rH disease with Gwendolyn, all my pregnancies are high-risk, and suffice to say there’s a lot to worry about.  Both of my babies were perfect, though – apparently a rarity with the disease – and I took it as a positive sign from God to continue growing our family. 

We never put a number on how many children we want; it’s more of a learn-as-you-go thing.  Three kids driving me absolutely insane?  Well, I guess it’s time to stop!  In all seriousness, though, we believe children are a blessing from God, and even though we have some extra concerns, I feel we should welcome as many as He’s willing to give us.  I myself am one of five kids and – even though there were definitely moments when I did not like my siblings - I enjoyed the companionship and comraderie growing up and even more so now that we’re adults.

This time around I started feeling exhausted early on and it was all I could do to stay awake during the day.  I find myself counting down the hours till nap- or bedtime so I can sleep, too!  I’ve also been nibbling to keep the nausea at bay, and that – combined with the fact that I have no desire to exercise lately – means I’m already in the next size up. *sigh*  I envy those women who only get cute little pregnant bellies when they’re, oh, six or seven months along; I seem to get pregnant all over.   

I’m so glad I can sew this time around.  Even though I have a bunch of maternity clothes it’s nice to think I can whip up something myself or alter something I already have.  Of course, I’ve already pinned some maternity inspiration…

Aura Joon has some great ideas for making the most out of your non-maternity clothes for as long as possible.  Granted, she’s skinny and beautiful and could make anything look good.

Especially when pregnant, I love long tops that cover my hips.  I love Craft Snob‘s t-shirt-to-maternity top makeover. 

This one from DIY Maternity is cute, too – it leaves some room for the belly to breathe but doesn’t float around your middle like a misshapen tent.

There are lots of tutorials for turning regular jeans into maternity pants and each one has its own spin.  Maternity clothes are ridiculously expensive, even when they go on sale; the idea of finding a cheap pair of jeans at a consignment store and tweaking them to fit a pregger belly sounds great to me.  Here are some of my fave tutes, courtesy of Crafty Cousins, Natty by Design &  Boz Baby, respectively:



And let’s not forget those flowy skirts! 

A Small Snippet made this skirt from a sheet!

This foldover maxi skirt from Elle Apparel looks super-comfy.

And don’t get me started on all that cute baby stuff!  I’ll leave that for another time.  Check out  my Pregger Style board for some more Pinspiration.

“Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord… Like arrows in the hands of a warrior are the children of one’s youth.  Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them!”
Psalm 127:3-5

The Good and The Bad

Sorry I’ve been so silent lately – it’s been busy around here!  It’s good to disconnect frequently but then I end up feeling… well… disconnected! 

I was hoping to introduce a new addition to our family - a sweet little bunny we named Clover – but he died the first night in our home. *sigh*  There’s a woman at the farmers’ market that we refer to as “the bunny lady,” because in addition to the plants she sells, she also brings along some of her rabbits for sale.  A few weeks back I was smitten by a little grey one – he just melted into my arms and settled down for a snuggle.  We didn’t see her in the following weeks, but just last weekend she was back with the bunnies.  We brought the grey one home, and since we were told they absolutely love to eat clover, that’s what we named him (after vetoing Gwen’s suggestion of “greya”).   

We got him all settled in his cage with some dry food, dandelion greens, parsley, and of course clover.  I felt bad taking him away from his siblings – he seemed to retreat and become rather shy, but I figured it would take him time to warm up to us.  The kids were so excited, petting him gently and exclaiming over the fact that “bunny didn’t bite me!” 

I was pretty restless that evening – it was rather muggy, and late at night Josiah came up with wet pants so I changed him and put him in bed with us.  This meant I had a sliver of mattress to sleep on, which is never conducive to a good night’s sleep.  I kept hearing funny noises from Clover’s cage, and since I couldn’t sleep anyway decided to check on it. 

Clover’s legs were flopping around; at first I thought he was dreaming, but quickly realized the movements were too wild and erratic.  I asked Phil to come check; when he took the bunny out of the cage, he was very limp and lethargic.  He didn’t protest when Phil checked him over, but every so often he would thrash and go into a seizure.  It did not look good, and I just sat there and cried as Phil tried to figure out what was wrong.  He finally told me to go bed so I wouldn’t have to watch, and suffice to say I didn’t fall asleep after that. 

In the morning before he left for work he told me Clover had died.  I felt sick, didn’t know what to tell the kids.  Josiah came running out of his room later, excitedly asking to see the bunny.  Phil had put him in a box so the kiddos and I could pet him and say good bye before we buried him.  I don’t believe in making up stories for kids, and they did very well with it.  Gwendolyn said, “Can we get the white one now?”  For some reason she keeps pretending that all her animals are dying. 

I was sad to realize that I didn’t even get a picture of the kiddos with Clover!  I suppose it’s for the best; I get sad all over again just thinking about it!  The Bunny Lady said we could pick another one but I’m not eager to repeat the scenario.  I had quite a few rabbits growing up, and we thought it would be great for the kids (and bunny poop is good for the gardens!), but this was an emotional reintroduction for me.     

Sandwiched inbetween these events we caught  The Big Apple Circus when it was in town – always a good time!  It’s a small venue and we both agree that we like it much better than the bigger Barnum & Bailey.  All the seats are in good view of the ring and the acts are varied and unique.

This week I’m volunteering at Vacation Bible School (VBS) in the mornings, so it’s been fun and interesting working with a group of Kindergarteners and first-graders.  Gwen was sick all last night (yay -another sleepless night!) but luckily her bouts blow over very quickly and she felt well enough to go along today.  We had to wear Christmas colors today and the only thing I could find was my Dr. Seuss “Thing 1″ shirt!  People kept asking me where Thing 2 was.   

I’ve been a bit discouraged at the lack of success with GwendyLicious, my Etsy shop, so I haven’t been as ambitious with my sewing but I did get some things done here and there.  Browsing through Small Stash Sewing, I decided to try my hand at the silk scarf project.  I re-purposed one of the raw silk bridesmaid skirts from my wedding and had fun with the decorative stitching, adding a pretty border of cotton fabric.  I love how it came out


One of my out-of-state friends had a birthday last month, and though I intended it to be a first-anniversary gift, I belatedly made her an invitation ornament.  She had an autumn-themed wedding, so in addition to the curled strips of wedding invitation I added leaf confetti and an orange ribbon.  It’s a much different color scheme than the first one I made but it works wonderfully. 

 

We had a great 4th of July (more to come on that… if I get around to it) and I’m getting closer to deciding our homeschool curriculum.  So all in all, things are good!  Oh, and if you haven’t done so already it’s not too late to enter my Blissful Bites cookbook giveaway!

Phew!  How are you doing?

Camping in Mystic, CT

It was so much fun using our new camper last year and we couldn’t wait to go again, so we got an early start this time around.  To coincide with Phil’s work schedule we take two-day trips to nearby campgrounds.  Since we’re already familiar with Mystic Village in CT, we decided to stay in the area and take the kiddos to Mystic Aquarium.

You win some, you lose some, and we were not impressed with Seaport Campground.  When a campground calls itself a “resort,” you expect a little more than an empty pool, $2 mini golf and a dumping station that wasn’t working.  At least it wasn’t expensive, and since we spent most of our time offgrounds it wasn’t much of an issue.  There was a small playground for the kiddos (always their favorite part) and we did break out the kites when it got windy.

We talked about the trip quite a bit before we went.  The aquarium itself is expensive and though we pack most of our food we knew we were getting lunch in the village so we wanted to be realistic about the cost.  At the last minute I remembered that my local library has a discount pass for the aquarium so that scored us some savings, and imagine our surprise when we found out Phil was able to get in free with his fire department ID!  Since Josiah is under three years old we only paid a discount rate for Gwen and me.  And you know what else?  Tickets to the aquarium are good for the next two days!  Just come back, have them validated, and you can get in for free!  Guess what we did two days in a row? 

Seeing a beluga whale swim right in front of you is an awesome experience, and watching your kids stare in amazement is even better.  While one of the belugas was making its rounds in front of the glass, it opened its mouth at a group of kiddos, eliciting some excited squeals. 

 

We got quite a bit of sun and exercise walking around, seeing the animals, picking our favorites. 

 
 
 

Around lunchtime we had our hands stamped so we could get back in later then walked across the street to the village. 

Our favorite spot to get lunch is at Mango’s Wood Fired Pizza Co., where we get The Bootlegger pizza – sooo good!  And with the 10% discount coupon that you can print from the village website (good at many of the stores), it’s pretty reasonable!

 
A trip to the village isn’t complete with stopping at Bestemors, where they sell all sorts of Danish and Scandinavian goodies.  I’m half Danish, so it’s a treat to find a store like this.  I almost always get some international licorice for my father or something to put away for one of my parents. 

Another must was a trip to Franklin’s General Store for some fudge.  Even though we don’t eat white sugar these days we still like to get a couple pieces.  In the past we’ve been able to get a couple small pieces in different kinds, and this year I was kind of miffed when the lady behind the counter told us we had to buy it in the big, premade slices.  You would think they would want to accomodate their customers in any way; we made it last, but since I didn’t really want that much fudge to begin with I’m not sure we’ll be buying it again.

There’s a duck pond with ducks everywhere, and it was funny to see the males fighting over the females.  By the afternoon, they seemed to have paired off and were sitting contentedly.  The next day while wandering around the village again, we found a nest of eggs under one of the park benches.

 

One of my favorite exhibits at the aquarium is the Ray Touch Pool.  There’s a small pool with a bunch of sting rays swimming around and you place your hand at the surface of the water; as they swim around they come up to your hand so you can touch them.  I could stand there for hours! 

Sometimes they’re not feeling social and stay near the bottom, but oftentimes they come right up to the surface and your hand glides along their soft, almost velvety bodies – so cool! 

 

This year I also got to touch the small sharks in the Shark Encounters exhibit.  They’re not big and scary like your typical shark so I wasn’t nervous, and though I expected them to be soft like the sting rays they felt hard and spiny. 

The kids didn’t want to touch them, though they did want to splash their hands in the water. :)

One of the last things we did before heading home is visiting the Children’s Museum of Southeastern CT.  It wasn’t very big and the exhibits were relatively simple, but we were entertained for a good couple of hours.  One side of the museum consisted of different pretend areas – a big boat with fishing rods and fishermen gear, a shopping center with food, ice cream cart, an Egyptian pyramid, a Mexican restaurant, etc. 

 
 

The other side was a bit more educational and science-oriented with a microscope, mirrors, musical instruments, and various experiments. 

Outside there were bubble wands, a tree house, a dirt pile with pipes and shovels, and Phil’s favorite: a zip line.  Now he wants to put one in our yard!

 

We were technically finished with preschool the week before we left, but I always try to pack something educational in case we have time.  I found these aquariun scavenger hunt printables that the kids checked off when we got back to the camper, and I put together a little booklet for each of us to write or draw in.  Yes, even one for Mommy and Daddy!  They’re supposed to be used for alphabet books, and there’s a cover page for each letter of the alphabet, but I just used the letters for our names.  I figure we’ll pack them on each of our camping trips just for something fun to do, then add it to our keepsakes at the end of the year. 

 

One of the last Bible activities in the ABCJLM curriculum is The Wordless Book, so I used some of Homeschool Printable’s resources and used them along with some coordinating pom poms.  The kiddos love anything with pom poms! 

 

Every time we go on a camping trip we think of things to improve the experience.  After last year we added some hooks on the wall by the camper door so we’re not always throwing our jackets on the chair just inside.  And since the bathroom door is right near the front we thought it best to hang a curtain across the doorway; it gives us more room to change or help the kiddos use the bathroom without worrying about giving others a free show. 

You can see the curtain just behind me.

This year, we finally bought a dish drainer for the kitchen and Phil is going to rig some outdoor speakers so we can listen to music around the campfire while the kids are sleeping. 

 
(Daddy was telling a scary ghost story)

Last year we ended the season with a trip to Pine Acres Family Camping Resort.  It was technically closed for the season, but we thoroughly enjoyed the grounds and the family-run operation and are eager to go again this year while it’s up and running.  Every time I plan and pack for a trip I forget about all the ideas I’ve been bookmarking, so this time around I want to make sure I remember to try a couple new recipes, like hobo packets, campurritos and campfire cones.  And since I discovered that my natural marshmallows freeze well and make great s’mores, I’ll have to make those ahead of time.  Also on my to-do list are some roadtrip or sleepover pillowcases for the kiddos.

The day before we left for Mystic I did manage to whip up some washcloth travel pouches after seeing a similar idea on Pinterest.  I used a couple washcloths I already had – one for Phil and me, one for the kiddos – and used them to store our toothbrushes and toothpaste.  I really like these!  I’m thinking of making a few more as gifts.

 

Do you go camping?  I’d love to hear about some of your favorite spots to visit, as well as how other people rough it - including recipes and what to do to pass the time without technology (you can only play so many games of Candyland!).

*See my camping Pinterest board for inspiration.

Expanding the Garden

I love the idea of being self-sustaining – growing and raising our own food, living off the land so we’re eating the freshest, healthiest foods and not answering to someone else’s standard of living.  We’re still contemplating raising chickens, maybe even goats for milk one day, but we’re not ready for that yet.  Baby steps. 

Last year we had three raised beds, and while we thoroughly enjoyed the resulting crops, we didn’t get enough to put any produce away.  We pretty much ate it as it ripened, although we did give some of it away here and there. 

This year Phil built five more raised beds making two rows of four; though I believe he really just wanted to borrow his friend’s backhoe as an excuse to play around and tear up the yard.  The kiddos drove around with him in that thing for over an hour! 

Our side yard looks completely different now.  A big tree was cut down, a side garden uprooted and transplanted (we haven’t really committed to flower gardens yet since we know we’re not done with the yard), and the beds added.  The kiddos were a big help raking the dirt.

 

There are always folks around here with manure for the taking so we scored a load and got to work mixing it in with the soil.  As you can see, Josiah is Daddy’s Big Helper.  I had to laugh when I saw the two of them; apparently, Phil had taken off his shirt while he was working and Josiah promptly followed suit. 

 

Another trip to get some free (I love free!) mulch and we filled in the ground between the beds. 


One day last month Phil told me we should be able to start planting soon.  Not two days later he said we’d better hurry up, his mother already had her garden planted!  I didn’t realize it was a competition. :)  So he got his butt in gear, printed out a planting schedule, and we got to work with a first planting of spinach, lettuce and peas. 

On the left you can see the beginnings of what is now our new compost pile and on the right is our camper, next to which we have a nice section of rhubarb, complements of my grandmother’s old garden.  The kids were very excited to help plant the seeds and bulbs and it provides such a great learning experience for them.

 

 

Whenever I tell them we’re eating fresh food from our garden, it’s one of the best feelings in the world.  And when we ate the first of the asparagus – ohmigoodness, the stuff in the stores just doesn’t compare!  I swear all vegetables are sweet when freshly picked.  I can’t wait to try bacon-wrapped asparagus

 

Poking their heads up we’ve got the asparagus, two types of lettuce, spinach and peas.  This year we also hope to have tomatoes (a couple different kinds – I think plum and some sort of hot for salsa), squash (summer, butternut and zucchini), peppers, potatoes, onions and garlic.  After last year’s carrots I’m not too keen on growing them again, but Phil said we might as well try.  I feel the same way about broccoli. 

My sister-in-law gave me Canning for a New Generation for my birthday last year and I’m excited to try some of the recipes.  I’m already looking forward to filling in the fruit gaps picking peaches and blueberries this summer, too.