Thankful

We have a ritual - every night at dinnertime or bedtime, I ask everyone what his or her favorite part of the day was.  Gwen usually thinks about it and gives me a thoughtful answer.  Josiah goes, “Hm… tractor.”  More often than not, Phil will say “Spending time with my family.”  And while I’m usually looking for something more – a specific part of the day - I have to agree with his sentiment.

Whenever I think about those things for which I am grateful, it always comes down to people.  Family.  Friends who are family.  Special moments comprised of spending time with loved ones, sharing love and life and laughter, creating memories.   

I am so thankful for him:

And these two things:

I could go on and list some of the more material things I’m glad to have – like my new washer, the fabulous cowboy boots I got for my birthday, the talents God has given me so I can knit and craft… but there’s nothing in the world I’d rather have more than my family.

Looking forward to spending the day with family tomorrow (or, rather, today – eeek, is it that late?).  Remembering those who aren’t with us and thanking God for his blessings and provision.  And now I need to get my butt in bed so I’ll be able to handle family. 

Happy Thanksgiving to you all!

1 Thessalonians 5:18
“Give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”

Psalm 100:4b
“Be thankful to Him and bless His name.  For the Lord is good, oh the Lord is good.”

Psalm 107:1
“Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good; His love endures forever.”

Birthday Goodness

After turning the big 3-0 last year, turning plain ol’ thirty-one today seems almost anti-climactic.  But I don’t need a big shebang to feel special.  Even though Phil is working a 24-hour shift, I feel much better today than I did when I celebrated our tenth anniversary all by myself last month. 

The kiddos and I had breakfast with Mom at T’s Restaurant, and afterwards I took them to a playground nearby.  

 

Now that I have children, I’ve found that most of what I do stems from a desire to make them happy.  Even though it may technically be “my day,” I wanted to do something special for them.  After all, they’re here because of me, so they’re as much a part of the celebration as I am.  I feel this even more strongly on their birthdays, since it commemorates not only the day they were born, but the day I gave birth to them.  

Anyhoo… I don’t know if I would call it a tradition, but I have this birthday ritual that’s been going on for the past few years.  It may have initially started when I was once again by myself, trying to think of a small way to celebrate.  I had passed Sweet Twist on a number of occasions, always wanted to stop because I was intrigued at the notion of a gift shop that also sold chocolates.  I love dark chocolate, and even more so do I love dark chocolate truffles.  It’s a little different now that the kiddos are with me – lots of pointing and “Mama, look!” and “No, don’t touch that.”  They each got to pick out one thing for their Christmas stocking, and then we got a small box of truffles.  Gwen wanted ”the one with the sparkles” (cupcake flavor with sprinkles) and I picked strawberry for Josiah.  For the rest, I chose tiramisu, pumpkin spice, raspberry, and creme de menthe.  Since I shared them, I really only ended up eating about two. 

And yes, I’m trying to justify myself because I’ve been pretty good at remaining consistent with my healthy eating habits, but whenever a special occasion comes around I almost always make an exception.  Like when Phil came home with ice cream and root beer last night to make root beer floats to go along with homemade pizza and a movie.  And celebrating Nikki’s 30th birthday with an international chocolate tasting – two big trays filled with an assortment of chocolate tidbits.  And carrot cake and peanut M&Ms for my anniversary.  I can’t handle all these special occasions!  And Phil wants to take us out tomorrow…

Look at what he left me this morning:


I brought the bouquet of Dahlias downstairs this morning to put on the kitchen table, only to realize he had another bouquet already down there!  When he saw me bring the flowers back upstairs, Josiah got it in his head that that’s where all the flowers belonged, so he kept trying to carry them up the stairs – “Up there, up there!” 

Other surprises were in store.  My twin bro Dan and his wife are away, but they snuck a package to Phil and they gave me two awesome books: Canning for a New Generation and Design Sponge at Home - I can’t wait to look into their crisp, new pages!  My mom also had a bag of yummy, practical goodies when she saw me at breakfast. 

 

A little birdie got in touch with some of my high school friends and somehow twisted their arms to send me birthday greetings.  It feels like Christmas around here with all the cards!   

 

And, in spite of my better judgement, Phil gave me the go-ahead to purchase these babies:


I’ve had my eye on these Brown & Turquoise Boots from Crow’s Nest Trading Co. and can’t wait till they come in the mail!  Let me pass along the savings: if you decide to order something from their website use promo code S11901 for 10% off a $150+ order. 

My parents are taking Gwen to the Jack-O-Lantern Spectacular tonight and are insisting we all go along, so that oughtta be fun, as long as it’s not too cold!  Haven’t picked a restaurant for tomorrow yet, but I’m consider The Old Mill in MA.  I suppose the story is for another time, but going to The Old Mill for my birthday is a long-standing tradition for my family - my parents ate there while on a drive through Massachusetts looking at the foliage the day before my brother and I were born, and growing up I don’t think we ever missed a year going back. 

Feeling happy and blessed.

Feelin’ Crafty

Have I told you how much I love Pinterest?  I’m so proud of myself – I’ve been taking advantage of some of the gazillion crafts that are floating around just waiting to be made. 

A while ago I purchased some chalkboard paint, intending to make a perpetual calendar, but then my mother-in-law gave me a magnetic calendar to use with the kiddos.  The poor lil’ tub of paint sat in a cupboard until I came across an idea to make a chalkboard book.  I knew Gwen would love this!  She loves her magnet board and dry erase center, so this would be right up her alley.   

In all honesty, using the paint – as opposed to spray paint – was a royal pain.  It seemed to take forever to paint each page, letting it dry every few pages.  No matter how careful I was, the pages would stick together and I would have to peel them apart. *sigh*  I would love to make another one at some point, but think I would go with the spray paint, a bigger board book, and one with fewer pages. 

    

I love homemade gifts and always try to think of handmade alternatives or additions when giving to someone.  Nikki celebrated her 30th birthday last month and I wanted to add some special touches to her present.  This past Summer I scored a Pink Lemonade handbag at a local craft fair and tried this felt flower tutorial as an embellishment.  I wasn’t able to print out the template for the flower, but I cut a piece of felt in a similar pattern and it made for a super-simple assembly.

I just rolled it up, placing dots of hot glue every so often, and finished it off by glueing the last piece to the bottom as a base.  Note to self: make it slightly bigger next time.  I love how it came out, and a similar tutorial for felt flowers gave a great idea for attaching a pin on the bottom. 

 

When my grandmother passed away last year, we had to go through all her things and decide what to keep, donate, trash.  I saved a bunch of her little decorative vases that she kept on her window sill, keeping the blue ones for myself and saving the purple ones for Nikki.  I decided they needed some pom pom flowers.   


So fun and whimsical and easy to make!  I made small ones because of the small vase, but would love some big ones in bright, bold colors. 

Last but not least, a little somethin’ for my hubby.  I totally fell in love with this idea for Seven Days of Love using a pillbox, love messages, and some treats to stash inside the compartments.  This week I turn thirty-one, and I decided – why not give give it to him this week?  My husband is one of the best gifts God has given me, and I love to bless him with little things. 

 

The original printable messages didn’t print correctly, so I just handwrote my own set of quotes, verses and other sentiments.  Phil’s not big on candy, so instead of putting a different kind in each compartment I used peanut M&Ms, one of his faves.  He was so touched when I gave it to him before going to work this morning.

Next on the list: a tutu dress for Gwen, using one of the ideas I’ve posted on my Gwendolyn board.  I couldn’t find tulle in 6″ rolls, so I just grabbed some yardage in different colors, hoping I’ll have enough. Since I haven’t done anything like this before, I want to make sure I have a gameplan before I cut into the tulle – eek!  This Petti Tutu Tutorial is geared towards using tulle by the yard, so it’s proven to be helpful.  I keep changing my mind on how to best accomplish what I have in mind; keeping my fingers crossed!

What craftiness have you been up to?

Pink & Green Baby Shower – a celebration of life

“Children are a gift from the LORD; they are a reward from him.”
Psalm 127:3

Growing up, I thought the nurturing gene may have somehow passed me by, because although I thought babies were cute, I wasn’t drawn to them.  I didn’t flock like the other girls to new mothers, oohing and ahhing, asking to hold their babies. 

And then I had a baby girl.  

Having children changes everything, no lie.  It changes your perspective in so many ways.  I love babies.  I still don’t rush over to new mamas, but I crane my neck to get a look at the tiny hands and feet, the tufts of soft hair on their heads, smile and offer congratulations or some sentiment about the precious bundle.  And every baby makes me think of my own children, how small they once were, how quickly they’re growing up.  While the urge to have another isn’t as strong now as it was when I only had one, I do sometimes feel that longing to hold my own baby again. *sigh*  

So, what’s the next best thing to having a baby?  Your best friend having a baby!  Nikki gave birth to beautiful Liberty Rose on July 1st, a name she’s had picked out since the first time around. 


While I love to be organized, ambitiously plan, I’m not very good at planning parties.  I get into the details, the food and decorations, but not all the other stuff – contacting people, figuring out how many servings we’ll need if “x” amount of people show up, narrowing down a time and place that’s suitable for everyone involved – gah, it gives me a headache!  But I’ve been wanting to throw Nichole a shower for a while, and with the help of a few friends we pulled it off.

I’m still waiting for Becky to show off some of her party shots on How-To Hospitality – and I’m sure she’ll make sure to include at least a couple endearing hospitality fails from the afternoon – but for now I’d like to regale you with the lovely Pink and Green Tea baby shower that Becky, my sister-in-law Jenn and I put together to welcome Liberty.

Becky remembered Nichole telling her she loved the combination of pink and green, so when I told her that Hostess {with the mostess} had some great party ideas, she looked around and thought it would be neat to go with their Sunny “Lemonade Stand” theme and substitute lime instead.  Of course, this was just a starting point, and the end result was totally different.  I decided to google pink and green baby shower, pink and green party, you name it - and yikes! – the ideas are endless and overwhelming.  We narrowed down our list of ideas to a few favorites.

Decorations
Of course, we tried to stick with shades of pink and green.  We went for the more muted colors, but there were some bright pops here and there. 

Handmade paper circles like the ones in this beautiful Bump Smitten: Pink & Green Garden shower were meant to be a backdrop the a dessert table, but since the weather was worsening due to the impending Hurricane Irene, we moved the festivities inside and had to change the original set-up.  Alas, I don’t think I ever got a shot of these, but Becky did a great job accordian-folding scrapbook papers for these.  We ended up hanging these in a window, along with strands of silver beads.

Somewhere I had seen a tutorial for tissue paper pom poms, and they made festive many of the occasions that popped up on my goodle search.  I thought, these would be easy enough!  I found a great assortment pack of white, pink, and green tissue papers at Target, and armed with good ol’ Martha Stewart’s  Tissue Papar Pom-Poms How-To – and laughing at this tutorial (yes, we braved the green ones) - we folded and scrunched and fluffed away.  It gets easier after the first one.  

We made a few big ones for hanging, and some smaller ones to double as flowers on the table.  The effect was gorgeous, nixing the need for fresh flowers (even though fresh flower are always nice, but one must make these decisions when working with a budget). 


Pooling our resources and dishware, we came up with some elegant settings of white china and pink glass.  The centerpieces, along with the pom pom flowers, were silver candleholders and vases in varying heights.  

 
Menu
We rearranged some of the furniture to suit the flow of guests, and ended up putting a dining room sideboard out on the porch to serve as the food table.  It echoed the elegant simplicity with white and glass plates; pom poms and silver beads brightended up the area. 

My mouth started watering as I saw the spread for this Pink and Green Baby Shower from Heather Christo Cooks.  I was immediately drawn to the lime bars with macadamia nut crust (I always go for desserts), and was trying to figure out how I could alter a recipe for lemon-raspberry bars when I discovered that Heather Christo was nice enough to share her recipe for the lime bars!  I think the only changes I made were using white whole wheat flour for the all-purpose, and rapadura sugar for the white.  They tasted great, but it was humid and the sifting of confectioners’ sugar dissolved on top of the bars so they didn’t look as nice as the original version. 

Among some of the other “savory tastings” and “sweet somethings” were chicken salad with grapes wrapped in lettuce, cucumber tea sandwiches, multigrain chips with hot artichoke dip, strawberry cupcakes, and strawberry scones with lemon curd and jam on the side.


Pink lemonade and limeade were on top of the list, and I lucked out with Martha Stewart’s recipes for Mint Limeade (using chocolate mint from my own garden) and Pink Lemonade with cranberry juice – yum!


We served these beverages – along with ice water – in canning jars that doubled as place card holders.  I had seen these whimsical striped straws among other party ideas, and found a green and pink straw combo pack along with some pink plaid cupcake liners at The Bakers Confection’s Etsy shop.  We also served tea for those brave enough for a hot drink.

Think Outside The Box
A fun little idea was to set up a photo booth where people could have their picture taken.  When we moved the shower inside, there wasn’t really a good spot for this.  While setting up for the party, this old couch of my grandmother’s sat on the porch, and it was too big to move out of the way.  I decided to dress it up shabby-chic style so it would blend in, and we ended up using that as the photo booth.  Think outside the box, and work with what you’ve got!



We had a lovely time, I ate way too much sugar, and I was so glad to be able to welcome this little life and bless a friend. 

Simplicity Parenting Book Club – Chapter 5

From birth, we’re told to put our children on a schedule – or at least be aware of patterns throughout the day.  There are so many thoughts on what type of schedule is the best.  Feeding schedules, sleep schedules, activity schedules.  Just the scheduling is exhausting, nevermind the activities themselves!  I’m thinking perhaps unscheduling may be the way to go.     

My kiddos are only 3 and 1, but I can’t believe how many people assume they’re already in some sort of program – or soon will be.  It’s expected that our children will just be put somewhere, rather than remain with their parents.  And for kids that young, I bet any “classes” they take equate to playtime at home.  I understand there are different situations, some parents may not have much of a choice, but I always feel bad when I see daycare signs that advertise admitting children as young as 6 weeks (or less).  I firmly believe babies and young children need to be around their parents; they may survive just fine around other people, but I don’t believe they will learn and thrive and grow to the same extent.       

I was so disappointed that I had to return the library copy of Simplicity Parenting since there was a hold on it, but I was able to read this chapter.  I agree with what some of the other mamas have said, feeling like it gives us “permission” to say enough to the busy-ness, even though we still often feel like we need to be doing more!  Especially if it’s “educational,” right?  “Activity without downtime is ultimately unsustainable; excess ‘enrichment’ is not soaking in.”  At young ages, kids just need to be kids and explore their worlds.     

I bring my kiddos to storytime at the library every week, since we’re already there to get books/movies.  There’s a playground right next door, which means even more interaction for them.  We go to church every Sunday; the littlest one is in the nursery, and the older one has Sunday School.  Even just running errands and getting outside, we interact with lots of people and get to enjoy many activities (especially when the weather is nice).  I like that my children interact with people of all ages, since only being with their peer group creates an unrealistic environment.   

Playdates are a good idea in theory, I suppose, but I’m not too crazy about them. Putting a bunch of kids together with a bunch of toys just equals a headache; you spend the whole time teaching them how to share and get along!  It’s hard enough at your own home, nevermind trying to adapt to someone else’s rules.  Then try to carry on a conversation at the same time!  It’s exhausting for me, really.  I do, however, enjoy getting together one-on-one with friends and their children for specific activities from time to time.   

As your kids get older, I suppose trying to find the balance between activity and calm becomes more of a challenge.  Right now, we have specific days when we do routine things (church, grocery store, library), and since I consider running errands “activities” for my kiddos, I try to limit how much I go out the rest of the week.  We’re homebodies, but sometimes I feel the need to get out of the house or I’ll go crazy.  We may go to the zoo or the beach when the weather is nice (which means a longer day), or head to the farmers’ market on the weekend.  I notice that we usually need to “recover” from a long day, and the kiddos get really tired and fussy if I don’t make a point to slow down.  ”Rest nurtures creativity, which nurtures activity.  Activity nurtures rest, which sustains creativity.”  

I, too, was somewhat disturbed reading the statistics on children involved in organized sports at younger and younger ages these days.  Sure, it’s cute – but seriously?  I played soccer for a number of years when I was younger, but even as I got older the focus was mainly about having fun and creating a sense of teamwork rather than being the best and winning the game.   

One of the points made in this chapter, is that no matter how much your children may enjoy something or want to do it, it doesn’t mean it’s in his or her best interest to overschedule.  I keep thinking how much my 3-year-old seems to enjoy structured social activities (Sunday School, storytime, kids’ Bible class at her grandmother’s church), but that doesn’t mean that more equals is better.   I hope to homeschool my children, and sometimes I think, Why not put her in public school?  She may enjoy it, and I won’t have to teach her.  But then I remind myself of what’s better for her in the long run.     

I loved the section on the importance of boredom, but I don’t think my kids are old enough to understand that concept yet (and come to think of it, I don’t think we ever say the word).  There’s always something for them to do, and my daughter especially is very creative, good at playing by herself.  “You can’t direct [deep play]; you can only leave time for it and trust that leisure and activity will nurture your child’s creativity.”  I think sometimes when they’re tired or not feeling well, they don’t necessarily want to play with the things they have, but that’s another matter.

Some of our best days are spent outside in the front yard – the kids find cool rocks, dig holes in the dirt, draw with sidewalk chalk, and run after the guinea hens that come through our yard.  We also have a blast when we go peach-picking, spend a day swimming at the beach, or pick our favorite animal at the zoo… but I think that’s because we make these once-in-a-while activities rather than every day occurrences.     

Read my thoughts on Chapter 1
Read my thoughts on Chapter 2
Read my thoughts on Chapter 3
Read my thoughts on Chapter 4